How to do the legal bit
Choose where to do it!
This ceremony does not have to take place at your local register office. It can be held at any register office with availability to conduct a statutory ceremony. Every registration district is required to offer statutory wedding ceremonies (this just means the most basic of ceremonies). However, these are usually held at off-peak times and are rarely advertised. They also book up quickly, so make sure you don’t leave booking until the last minute. The cost is approximately £70.
You will need to know where the ceremony is taking place before you can proceed with the next stage…
Notice of Marriage
Everyone has to give Notice of Marriage, regardless of the type of wedding ceremony they are having (except for some faith weddings). Both of you need to give notice at your local register office. If you're unsure of which area this is, it will be the local authority to which you pay your council tax. This must be done in person and at least 28 days before your wedding. The fee is approximately £42 each (for British nationals).
You will be required to present very specific identification. Please read the email sent to you when booking your appointment, as the documents required may vary depending on your nationality, date of birth, and marital status.
Your Marriage Schedule
After 28 days, a marriage schedule will be generated. This is the document you will sign when you legally marry.
At the Legal Ceremony
The legal ceremony requires you both to speak aloud specific phrases - one declaring that you are free to marry, and the other contracting the marriage. These are repeated after the registrar but must be said correctly, or you will be asked to repeat the sentences. After this, you will sign the marriage schedule, along with two witnesses and the registrars present.
The marriage schedule is now an A4 piece of paper. You no longer sign the traditional marriage register book (this applies to all weddings, not just statutory ceremonies). The schedule will then be entered into the registration office’s electronic system, and a marriage certificate will be dispatched to you.
You are NOT required to exchange rings, dress up, or bring family members with you.
What’s Next?
The pressure is off! You are now legally married. This means you can enjoy a stress-free, rule-free, friendly wedding ceremony alongside your celebrant and your nearest and dearest.
SIMPLE!
If you'd like to know more about how to give Notice of Marriage - click here
